Happy days are just around the corner - for moms and dads worn out by children who are bickering and bored.
For many students, this time of year is filled with dread. The thought of going back to school can be difficult and painful for many children; for some it's downright scary. Remembering the challenges, the frustrations, and the disappointments of last year can be overwhelming.
It doesn't have to be that way. You can resolve to help your children have the most successful school year ever. As a private tutor, I have found a number of things that help students succeed - not just at this time of the year, but throughout the entire school year. Here's what I know for sure works:
1. Help your child get organized. Many students do not have the organizational skills they need to keep track of projects, deadlines, and assignments. Although all schools supply your child with a planner, many (especially early high school students) fail to use it. Ask to see the planner every day, until it becomes a habit. This may take a bit of persistence on your part, but it's worth it. Children who use their planners on the whole get marks that are higher than those who don't.
2. Set aside a time that is dedicated to homework every day. Don't let your son or daughter tell you they have no homework. If he or she is in high school, even if the teacher doesn't assign specific questions, students should be reviewing what was covered in class. Make sure notes are in the correct divider sections of their binder. If you let this lapse for even one week, you'll be gobsmacked at the abundance of crumpled-up paper in the bottom of the backpack. Stay on top of it with them, until they acquire this habit themselves.
3. By the end of September, you'll have a feeling for what subjects your child is loving, and those he is not. Get in touch with the teacher early, to confirm what you believe are his struggles, and collaborate with him or her to find solutions. If you wait until Thanksgiving, your child may already be drowning in concepts he just doesn't get. Don't wait for the school to contact you, or for an early interim report card. Advocate for your child, and your concern will pay off.
4. If all else fails, get your child some outside support. Many schools offer peer tutoring programs, or you can hire a professional. Get your child started off on the right foot and you'll both be pleased with the results.
- Linda Greven is the owner of Fun-Wey Tutoring Services in North Vancouver. She can be reached at [email protected] .
